FAMILIARITY BREEDS CONTEMPT – THE INDIAN VERSION (26-Mar-2021)
Proverbial knowledge via proverbs like ‘familiarity breeds contempt’ holds the test of times in almost all walks of life and around the globe, unless of course you are an Indian! The phrase essentially means an extensive knowledge or close continuous association with someone or something can slowly trigger a loss of respect for them or it. We Indians dare to be different and in our context this phrase has a unique connotation. Let me explain a few scenarios… At noon on a weekday, my friend wanted to venture into his friend’s office. ‘You should meet this character at his office’ - he told me. I immediately countered ‘wait at work we mustn’t disturb him.’ My friend had cast a magic spell around his friend’s life or so it seemed - ‘don’t you worry; if he is in a meeting he better step out. After all I’m his childhood friend.’ In essence, my friend felt an adrenaline rush to capitalize on his familiarity! While my friend’s friend probab...