ABHYANGANA - A YESTERYEAR OIL-BATH RITUAL (20-Jun-2020)


A unique and holistic experience that entails an ablution with application of oil to the head and body for pronounced health benefits…..

It is a jiffy world in our fast-paced life.  Present day youngsters apply a little oil to their hair, jump into the shower, run the hot water from solar or geyser, use a variety of shampoo and conditioner (inspired by celebrity endorsements) to wash off the oil, quickly attempt to blow-dry the hair, and run out of the house with a wet-look hair!  An experience of today that fades in comparison to the elaborate ones of yesteryear cherished by my generation.

I grew up in Mysore during the 70s and 80s, the pre-and-post preparation for an oil bath was an exquisite process.  Initiated with a massage to the scalp with warm castor oil, our grandma recited prayers to invoke the Lord’s blessings on us children; the application for the rest of our body followed and the rubdown helped our skin to absorb for enhanced glow and related benefits.

Water containers to heat the water was not a boiler or geyser or even the solar water-heaters of today, but a large ‘hande (container)’ made of copper via firewood burned underneath it.  This appliance was housed in bathrooms within a brick structure and a rectangular hole right below used to place wood into it to light a fire.  A built-in chimney that carried smoke to the rooftop to help fumes escape into thin air.  It was an art to light the firewood with kerosene and a matchstick.  There was no thermostat to monitor the temperature, instead more wood burnt resulted in water reach the boiling point.  Substitution with dry coconut shells or leaves, etc. was in vogue.

Proper planned schedule was the need of the hour.  Water had to be stored in large cement tanks, and some buckets too.  Bathrooms housed one large cement tank that appeared more like a Jacuzzi-pool of today, sans the space to lie down!  Careful mix of the hot water in ‘hande’ with the cold water in the ‘cement tank’ yielded the ‘right-temperature’ water stored in-transit in buckets and poured on us from mugs.

Warmed up oil was smeared once again all over the body just before the actual bath.  Shikakai or soap-nut powder with other accompaniments were used copiously as a good cleansing agent.  The grandma or the mother made a re-entry into the bathroom to start the proceedings, and chanted shlokas as she gave half-naked children a good hair and body wash.  Cousins gathered at home during vacation time were lined up one next to the other; grandma moved from one to the next while mother poured hot water.  Grandma had no clue whose head she held in her hands but cared less because it was one of her grandchildren!

A little stint in the hot sun to dry the hair, it was time to devour some delicious food followed by an afternoon siesta.  The head-bath was typically planned for the weekend.  Resorts today advertise ‘we help de-clutter your life,’ and people beeline and pay an arm-and-a-leg!  Life today is too fast paced to extricate out of a ‘self-created clutter.’ 

Grandma left us in the 80s, around the same time when boilers and other gadgets made their entry into modern bathrooms; with that a ritual faded into past glory! An Abhyangana designed from the bygone days is a de-stress mantra for today’s life?!

Comments

  1. The best way one could look d relax .. one who has experienced this only can appreciate it's value ..

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  2. Good read, Prasanna. Evokes memories of unhurried life back then, and, of course, of grandma

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    1. Thanks Nag.... special memories and grandma was too amazing...

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  3. Find memories of my mom giving us oil massages brought to the fore... Tx prasanna

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  4. Enne neeru adamele gasagase payasa. Used to be a fantastic relaxation. Sometimes father used to get Mylari dosa parcel hmmmm.

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    1. Looks like today ie Sunday is set for you. But so true... it's was relaxing
      Thanks a lot

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  5. Grandmas, 'hande' & 'eNne neeru' ... lovely memories

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    1. Absolutely and festive seasons added a lot more to this ritual

      Thanks a lot

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  6. Took me back to good ol' days of childhood.Oil baths were a luxury and as good as a celebration!!

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    1. Celebration of the good times and the simple pleasures of life... Thanks a lot

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  7. Very true Prasanna. U took us back to our childhood days especially during deepavali v used to get up @3 am. My grandmother used to do ಎಣ್ನೆ ಶಾಸ್ತ್ರ. There used to be competition who would finish bath first and light the cracker. Wonderful write up. Keep going

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    1. Festivals were a notch above for this ritual... thank you very much

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  8. We used to be around 7-8 together during those days and ajji mane was a favourite haunting place :) Hats off to our grand parents for being so patient with a variety of needs.. one would need hecchu bisi, other becchaage :) great memories.. very nostalgic! I can still feel the warmth after so many years!

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    1. Good you felt the warmth and those are great memories
      Yes grandparents invested a lot of time in our upbringing..
      Thanks a lot

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  9. It's become a rarity these days. Thanks for the trip down memory lane. Write a blog on the forgotten art of cutting a jackfruit and extracting the fruit. That too was quite a ritual by itself

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  10. Prasad....thank you very much. Many of the rituals incl. the one you have talked about are forgotten today for various reasons...
    Yes time to revive memories, at least....

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  11. wow nice article. nice memories recalled. Had similar experiences.

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    1. Thanks a lot...missing your name
      But its true those memories are vivid for many of us....

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  12. Real vivid description of oil bath penned down by you reminds me of my own childhood days ...we cherish those times..

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    1. Very true.... those were lovely memories....
      Thanks a lot

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  13. Even today you can have pleasure of having such luxurious nostalgic bath of heavenly pleasure at rural homes of sahyadri around Therthalli .Sampaje ghats, yellapur , Sirsi and Siddapur areas. When I visit my native place in Sampaje 30 kms from Madikeri I still enjoy Hande bath. Oil is applied to head and whole body on Naraka Chaturdashi day known as " Thailabhyanga" ..Newly married Bride when he visits his spouse,s home he is taken care of well with all the rituals and sweet delicacies made out of special ghee....Prasanna Harihar has the art of taking us back to those days of luxury and bindas comforts.. With oil in head we used jump in to the near by river and spend time..

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    1. Thank you very much sir for your lovely comments and sharing with us your lovely moments. It is your blessings that you still enjoy such immersive experience. Oh I wish I can do that now....like I used to in the mid-80s....
      Cherish your comments.....seeking your blessings...

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  14. Abhyanga is a mindful massage of the body with oils that can be specific for each person.Enjoyed reading it. Truly reflective thoughts.

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  15. Thanks Gopal....lovely memories of the good old childhood days that has left a lasting experience...appreciate it...

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  16. 'Abhyanjana' / 'Enne-Neeru' / 'Eredukolluvudu' are pracices fading fast, definitely in the urban setting and may be in the rural areas also.

    It used to be once in a 15 day ritual when we were growing up - apart from the festival days, when it was mandatory.

    The fuel of choice used in our household used to be saw-dust for heating water. Saw-mills used to, on holidays, allow anyone to collect and take away saw-dust in large gunny bags for free initially, at a low rate later. Saw dust was anyway a scrap for them. One had to just take the trouble of just showing up at the saw mill - which was located far away from the town. The saw dust used to make an excellent fuel. If ignited in the night after dinner, it would burn overnight making available literally boiling water for abhyanjana to early risers in the hande.

    By the time everyone (families used to be large then) in the house finished eredu-kolluva program, entire morning and sometimes even good part of the afternoon would be over.

    Thanks for taking back to those days! - KSM

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  17. Thanks for your lovely comments and remembering the good old days. Yes it was many-a-times a full-day affair.
    Appreciate the comments. I am unable to decipher the initials - KSM??? Sorry

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  18. An Excellent Read.

    On the same topic there is a Lalitha Prabhanda tittled 'Ajjayyana Abhyanjana' in the Essay collection 'Malenadina Chitragalu' by none other than our own kannada poet KUVEMPU. It is an Excellent must-read in kannada, worth its weight in Gold
    (figuratively speaking at least, may not be literally though, especially with the yellow metal currently in stratosphetic zones)--KSM

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    1. Your comments to me is worth its weight in gold...I thank you very much for your insightful comments with references to the Great Poet Kuvempu....
      Really appreciate it...

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